The month of July 2011, has been a very different and newer environment to all of us in our family. Sastha is at-most enjoying the transition and is also most affected, for no fault of his.
There has been several events happening in a short duration.
- Change in house from IIT to Trents
- Going to new school - Harishree
- Going to day care
- Going to after school
All new environments, he is taking everything very well.
From Harishree there has been constant concerns that he is not listening to what the Acharya is saying.
On 11th, they had called us for council session.
When the counciler called us inside, Sastha also entered the room along with us. I tried going and informing Sastha that he should go to class. The counciler told us not to go, and informed the attendant to take the child, then she closed the door. Sastha was continuously tapping the door and calling Amma, Amma - open the door.
Ana was not able to concentrate and told that she is getting very disturbed. We asked the counciler what is the problem, She explained, that schools have a system and the kids needs abide by the system. The problem with Sastha is he is not listening to the Acharya and if he is forced, he rebels. The rebel or the revolt is a wrong behaviour and is told as misbehaviour. On repeated incidents this has happened. So as a counciler we need to see the all around enviornment. In School we have got the feedback from the teachers and in home we need to get feedback from the parents.
For the good of sastha, thinking from a long term, he needs to be told consistent messages. If he is not listening tell him firmly, and dont give him a choice to make. He has to listen, this message will have to be consistent in school and at home.
Today in the morning, Myself and Ana were very firm with Sastha. I was feeling very bad, since we have let him on his own and suddenly one fine day asking him to change. But he is coping up and coming up.
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